getting ready to go on vacation

Why is it that men wait for us to do all the little stuff. Today while babysitting I packed the kids and most all the stuff we need for the trip. As well as finish the laundry & clean the entire house. My husband got home and I asked him to help with two things, clean my daughters room and fill ziplock bags with ice. He grumbled about both and did niether. I am a little miffed since I tried to make it easier on him. And yet he managed to complain much and complete little. I love my husband, I do. I just don't get him sometimes. Anyways, Arizona here we come.